Do you ever think, ugh, my teen is so lazy?
Do you ever think, ugh, my teen is so lazy?
They wake up at 11 a.m.
They lay around in bed.
They waste their time on social media.
“Stop being so lazy and do something!”
I have a secret that may surprise you: they are doing something!
They are counteracting academic pressure.
They are resting their body after exercising.
They are building back the thought, “I am worthy,” after being rejected by a friend.
What you might label “lazy” is your teen’s version of a “time out” when they reset and refuel to tackle everyday challenges.
It’s their way of coping with the stress and overwhelm of their daily life.
So quiet the thought, “They won’t be successful if they do nothing all day.”
Instead, notice how they are instinctually rebooting their energy to manage the pressures of academics, sports, and friends.
They are trying their best at school.
They are navigating the complexities of friendships.
They are contributing to a team.
They are giving back to their community.
When you observe and share what they are doing, your teen hears:
I am worthy.
I am good enough.
I am responsible.
I am a contributor.
In my 6-month coaching program, I teach you 3 simple skills to have a better relationship with your teen:
How to slow down so that you respond calmly with no accusation or sarcasm.
How to help your teen take responsibility.
How to build their self-confidence.
If you want to motivate your child, try something different.
Book a complimentary call here.
I will guide you through the rest.
♥️ Jeanine
