How to stop being ticked at your teen.

Here’s a list of things that teens do that cause parents to be unhinged:

They can’t get out of bed.
They can’t stop checking their phone.
They don’t do their homework assignments.
They don’t listen.
They eat crap food.
They’re lazy.
They’re disrespectful.
They procrastinate.
They lie.
They smoke, drink, or watch porn.

I’m sure you can think of a few more. LOL!

The reason these behaviors drive you crazy is because you expect your child not to do them.

And when they do, you’re disappointed.

You think the solution to feeling better is your teen changing.

So you try to make them stop, but it doesn’t work.

And then you wonder what you’re doing wrong.

Listen. There is nothing wrong with your teen.

And there is nothing wrong with you!

Here’s the secret to avoid being frustrated with your teen and getting down on yourself:

Accept what is.

It’s a simple concept.

And it’s the key to your happiness, your teen’s growth, and feeling connected.

I’m not saying you need to be happy about their behavior.

I’m suggesting you find neutrality.

I’m not saying to condone their behavior.

I’m suggesting you stop wishing it were different.

Instead, tell yourself that these are skills your teen hasn’t learned.

YET.

The good news is these skills are teachable.

So, the next time you feel your frustration rise, remind yourself your teen is still growing and learning.

If this makes sense, join my Facebook group, Parenting Teens: How to Not Lose Your Shit.

I will teach you a new approach that makes parenting more enjoyable.

♥️ Jeanine

P.S. Accepting what is is easier said than done. So, if you'd like my help, book a call to learn the benefits of having a parenting mentor and life coach. Love guaranteed.